There are three layers to every story you tell: 1) the one you tell the world, 2) the one you don’t tell the world, and 3) the one you don’t even tell yourself.
Your inner drive is hard to find. Especially since it is not found – but actively created. Continue reading “How To Create An Inner Drive – When You Are Only Used To Fulfilling Expectations?”
If they remake ‘Labyrinth’ with the same story it will miss everything that’s good about the original – David Bowie – and keep everything that’s bad. (Pretty much everything else.) Continue reading “Please Don’t Remake ‘Labyrinth’”
The best marriage advice you will ever get is also the most dubious.
Continue reading “Gratitude Is Another Word “Stockholm Syndrome””
The ultimate test to the quality of your relationship is how it ends. Continue reading “When Love Is Over – But Must Not Be Over”
You only need to practice these 3 simple mind tricks to ensure that you never live a meaningful life – just one that serves others. Continue reading “The 3 Pillars of a Wasted Life”
The vast majority of people would agree that identity and sense of purpose are hard work so you’d rather drift with prefabricated life roles and it’s as good as the real thing because everyone else is doing it, anyway.
But there is a catch. It will kill you.
There are people who used to be present when they were young. Maybe they even used to be your friends. But now they are gone, disappeared, missing. They are physically there but they are running The Program. I call them washing machine people – or clockwork humans.
They keep committing the suicide of the soul and keep pushing it onto you. Here is why. Continue reading “Clockwork Humans”
Roles come from the outside. You come from the inside. Continue reading “Life Roles vs. You”
Polyamory to monogamous relationships is like orgy is to sex. You may or may not be willing to try. It may or may not be for you. But it requires the deconstruction of the activity and reassembling the components in a way that makes you better understand them. Continue reading “8 Lessons of Polyamory”